7) Cuckolding
Traditionally known as troilism, cuckolding is a fetish in which a man derives s3xual pleasure from watching or merely knowing about his wife or partner having s3x with another man. Often, the pleasure is linked to the other man being a better lover or better endowed, which is why cuckolding has been linked by some to masochism, due to the humiliation factor. Dan Savage argued that cuckolding is the eroticization of male anxiety about their partner cheating on them.Some believe that the fetish is actually linked to a phenomenon known as sperm competition. When a woman has s3x with multiple men, the men exhibit (often unconscious) changes in behavior and biology designed to increase their likelihood of fertilizing an egg. Their sperm count goes up, and they tend to thrust deeper and harder during s3x.
On the other hand, one psychologist blames “king bee syndrome,” in which men gain psychological gratification from the idea of other men wanting to sleep with his partner.Some argue that cuckolding is a fetish that appeals to the highly educated and intelligent, to whom cuckolding represents a form of psychological sadomasochism that arouses through mental anguish. This argument is presented by a man with cuckold fantasies who happens to have a PhD, so it could be taken with a grain of salt, but cuckolding-related s3x therapist Susan Brock theorizes along similar lines. She claims that competition for a female stimulates s3xual desire and performance, because nature naturally tends toward laziness unless there is a compelling reason to up one’s game.
The argument is that most modern men are unable to enjoy such fantasies because of jealousy, which stems from archaic concepts about “owning” one’s wife, while intellectuals can get past the jealousy response and reap the benefit of the s3xual thrill caused by competition.Rachel Uchitel, who was engaged in an extramarital affair with Tiger Woods, reported getting an email detailing the golf star’s cuckolding fantasy, which read: “I had a dream we were married and I was leading the tournament. I came home, excited to see you, and there you were in the bedroom getting f—ked by Derek [Jeter] and David [Boreanaz]. Some part of me thinks you would like that. Now I can’t get back to sleep. My body is tired, but my mind is awake. Need an Ambien.”
Traditionally known as troilism, cuckolding is a fetish in which a man derives s3xual pleasure from watching or merely knowing about his wife or partner having s3x with another man. Often, the pleasure is linked to the other man being a better lover or better endowed, which is why cuckolding has been linked by some to masochism, due to the humiliation factor. Dan Savage argued that cuckolding is the eroticization of male anxiety about their partner cheating on them.Some believe that the fetish is actually linked to a phenomenon known as sperm competition. When a woman has s3x with multiple men, the men exhibit (often unconscious) changes in behavior and biology designed to increase their likelihood of fertilizing an egg. Their sperm count goes up, and they tend to thrust deeper and harder during s3x.
On the other hand, one psychologist blames “king bee syndrome,” in which men gain psychological gratification from the idea of other men wanting to sleep with his partner.Some argue that cuckolding is a fetish that appeals to the highly educated and intelligent, to whom cuckolding represents a form of psychological sadomasochism that arouses through mental anguish. This argument is presented by a man with cuckold fantasies who happens to have a PhD, so it could be taken with a grain of salt, but cuckolding-related s3x therapist Susan Brock theorizes along similar lines. She claims that competition for a female stimulates s3xual desire and performance, because nature naturally tends toward laziness unless there is a compelling reason to up one’s game.
The argument is that most modern men are unable to enjoy such fantasies because of jealousy, which stems from archaic concepts about “owning” one’s wife, while intellectuals can get past the jealousy response and reap the benefit of the s3xual thrill caused by competition.Rachel Uchitel, who was engaged in an extramarital affair with Tiger Woods, reported getting an email detailing the golf star’s cuckolding fantasy, which read: “I had a dream we were married and I was leading the tournament. I came home, excited to see you, and there you were in the bedroom getting f—ked by Derek [Jeter] and David [Boreanaz]. Some part of me thinks you would like that. Now I can’t get back to sleep. My body is tired, but my mind is awake. Need an Ambien.”
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